KKPZ featured Jill Viggiano on their recent radio program! Did you hear it?
If you didn’t to listen, KKPZ gave us a link to the program so more people could hear our talk. Actually, the talk was mostly Jill speaking. I had trouble getting my words out! If you listen closely, you MAY hear me mutter a few things.
When you listen to it, send me a note (back to this blog page) and let me know what you thought of it. Was it too long, too short, was there good info on it, etc.
Naturally, I want it to be more. I am ALWAYS wanting more. But I have to stay calm and BUILD my business. The problem is that I hate it when I am NOT building my business. Everyday I should be making phone calls, meeting with people, networking, etc.
The problem is that I don’t talk very well. See the dilemma?
Sometimes I tape record the calls. I have had meetings when I thought I was spectacular and I couldn’t wait to hear how I sounded. I turn on the tape and each time I am stunned. I can’t believe what I am hearing. I THINK I am doing a good job, but when I hear myself speak, I realize that all the people AROUND me are the ones being kind. I am terrible…even after 6.5 years.
When I talk…and read from a script, I do great. But when I try to improvise, that is where I fall down. I am thinking about scripting MORE of my calls. What do you think?
Sometimes I forget what it was like when Gordon could speak freely. At home, we have mostly normal conversations–he says a sentence, I say a sentence, and so on. He needs a few prompts now and then but we mostly understand each other. But when we go to a meeting or have a phone appointment, I watch his language disappear. It is clear from the look on his face that he is trying SO HARD to get coherent, orderly words to come out of his mouth. Instead, choppy, disorganized words start coming, then all words stop and he looks at me to express his thoughts for him.
For a long time, I thought if he could relax, the words would come. Not so. Regaining language and cognition is much more complicated than that. Even now, 6 years post-stroke, we have at least one conversation every day where Gordon starts in the middle of a thought and I have to ask him to start over from the beginning of his thought. It doesn’t occur to him that I don’t know what he is thinking.