Christmas in San Diego Pixie dust
In December, we celebrated our Christmas… in San Diego. … Does it get better than that???? Christmas in San Diego?
The reason for our trip to San Diego: It a nice place…but more importantly…. My mother in-law, Betty, has dementia.
She was stable for a number of years, but all of a sudden …she is decreasing.
Jill Decided On A Plan For Christmas
Jill decided we go to San Diego for Christmas and rent a VRBO with her brother Brent , and our son Tom & his new bride Bethany . My daughter Rachel, her daughter Stella and groom to be Nat were coming and would stay with Jill’s other brother, Gary to celebrate the holidays.
We even had pictures Gary’s family and the cousins.
My wife, Jill, took most of the pictures on our final day…. overlooking the beautiful beachs in San Diego. But, I said “ was I on this trip? …She tracked down a picture show grainy picture of me that someone else took. It was a grainy picture , but at least it shows ….I WAS there.
Jill made put together an agenda for Christmas DA she is really good at making an agenda DA and forwarded it to everyone. ….People then added there little tweaks ….until …it was finalized.
Everyday was the same. ….Brent would call our Father -in law, Al. Brent would invite them to different functions….and Al… would decline!!! ….I couldn’t believe it!
Betty’s three kids ….were all in San Diego for Christmas. Why not be a part of this special time?
On a few occasions, we traveled to her house to see them. Was there a difference of us going there …or them visiting us?? DA Beats me. DA
It was so sad …to see Betty looking LOST… ALL the time.
I remember when we gave birth to our daughter Rachel. Grandma Betty came up for a month to take care of Jill and help out with Rachel. I think back at that moment and tears fill my eyes.
It was a Merry Christmas (Stella) for all of us…and I am hoping it was a Merry Christmas… for you. 2020 was a terrible year. Along with the Covid outbreak …and millions of people out of work, my brother lost his wife and my brother in-law Brent’s wife lost his wife. I pray this year …will be better.
No matter what, just remember the joys of Christmas …“to give up one’s very self. To think only of others AND… how to bring the greatest happiness to them(Christmas photo)– that… is the true meaning of Christmas.”