Jill is writing this one…
One of the hard things about my sweet stroke surviving husband is that people often assume he is fine. That he can think clearly and that he can make sense of the world around him like anyone else. This is sometimes true…but not always true!
Sometimes, he can participate in conversation and make perfect sense. Then there are the other times. He will participate in a conversation and suddenly say something completely off-topic, insulting, nonsensical, and/or abrasive/aggressive. I want to say “Please forgive him! His brain doesn’t work right!” But the words are already out there and the other person is offended and no amount of explaining changes that.
For anyone out there that we have offended/insulted/freaked out, I am sorry. Please understand it was not intentional. It is the stroke talking.